“Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye.” H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

Back in the day there was “Dear Abby” today there is, Katie L Lindely/Sexlovemantra…Different? Maybe? But no. Life and our quest for love remains our human plight. I am your “Dear Katie”.


A safe place to share your dating triumphs and lessons. A safe place to ask questions. Ask away. Love stuck? Love rut? Searching and single? Dating whirlwind? Dating life dried up? Frustrated with dating the same wrong person? Want to trade in your spouse? I have heard story, after story, from men and women. The journey of the heart is not always smooth. I understand! You are not alone in love. Nor are you without a sounding board.

I am a positive intuitive, the founder of Sex-Love-Mantra and author of “A Man for Every Purpose, My Naked Journey Searching for Love. I have brought new loves together, and assisted relationships in healing. And am a certified Awakening Practitioner, and a certified Yoga teacher.

The love advice person is here! Complete with open ears and a heart that has done the work. I have been in the trenches, deep. I have experienced the good, the bad, the strange. I understand the journey of love, and wholeheartedly am here to help. My credentials are; life, honed intuition, and decades of study. That includes, but is not limited to, books, seminars, online courses, intuition classes.

You are welcome to reach out to me via a confidential email, and I will respond.

I am your shoulder, your sounding block, your mirror, to reflect your questions.  You are welcome to email me.

The open sign is on the door. The Love Doctor is in.

Feel free to email me. I look forward to hearing from you,

From my heart to yours…..


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Katie L Lindley

Although I would like to say I am organized, focused and cookie-cutter, that simply would not be me. I am no different than any other woman in the world. I love to love, love hard, and, in the end, have learned to love myself above all else. So here I am, writing about the many men and the multiple purposes they have served in my life. Realizing that not one man on my roster had fulfilled every single one of my needs. Perhaps one man is not supposed to? I have compiled snippets of the men that have entered my world. In the end, they have shoved me towards my bathroom mirror, forcing me to take a better look at myself. Reflection is brilliant and the strongest guidepost into ourselves.

Working on the next book in the series “A House for Every Purpose, My Journey From Pillow to Pillow” revels a woman abandoning her home in search or her identity beyond men, motherhood, author.

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