“The only gossip I’m interested in is things from the Weekly World News – ‘Woman’s bra bursts, 11 injured’. That kind of thing.” Johnny Depp

Female support system, bras are. They can make you perky. Hold you up, yet never leave you hanging. Close to the heart. Fits snug against your skin. Oh and lastly looks and feels good. My theory has always been look good with all layers of you clothes. For me that makes me feel good. If that is a bras requirement, how about the perfect man? It seems altogether daunting at times. As for men, most love a pretty bra, utterly stereotypical.

We all have our different lists as to what works and what doesn’t. Knowing ourselves better every day gets us closer to that one special relationship. We are all different, as are the men.

Yet here us girls are literally and figuratively wanting the perfection that we have imagined.  The proper bra is a necessity no woman should forego. The lasting results are proven to keep you well perked up above the bra-less gals, we are in fact supported. Can the right guy do all that?  I have seen my parents’ marriage, yes it is possible. My mother is my father’s support system as well.

I found out many truths when I was hot on the single-circuit. There was so many different options available many of us daters became picky and critical. Thinking, well there is always guy number eleven he seemed not so crazy… The search can be as enlightening as it is a conundrum. If we keep on the dating circuit that is what happens we are just on a whirlwind of dating. How do we find the right fit?

The million-dollar question. There is no simple answer but if you been trying the same method for years stop. I know for sure doing the same thing and expecting a different result never works. You will get the same result over and over. Get off that circuit and stop dating. Go to events where you may, or may not meet someone. Do the things you love. Having yourself open for possibilities is something more than the right outfit, it requires readiness and openness of the heart.

A woman I met who was single and ready. As she drove her mother to the airport her mom told her to “go to that little corner market, you’ll meet a man there”. She did, and she did that day! ( She was in a sports bra and yoga clothes) She smiled as she walked from isle to isle with her box of strawberries and he appeared in line with her. He forgot his bag and she offered hers in the car. There you go. It is a simple as that if we can just get out of our own way.

If you believe that there is no one out ‘there’ for you, that is what you will manifest, no one. If you believe that they are around the next corner they will be. You have to be willing to be open to love possibilities and they will show up! They may be in a different package that you have imagined but their heart and yours could still align.

Read about my love journey where many insights are reveled. Available on Amazon “A Man for Every Purpose, My Naked Journey Searching for Love”.

My Mantra: “I am as happy that blogging about bras can be funny and insightful”

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Katie L Lindley

Although I would like to say I am organized, focused and cookie-cutter, that simply would not be me. I am no different than any other woman in the world. I love to love, love hard, and, in the end, have learned to love myself above all else. So here I am, writing about the many men and the multiple purposes they have served in my life. Realizing that not one man on my roster had fulfilled every single one of my needs. Perhaps one man is not supposed to? I have compiled snippets of the men that have entered my world. In the end, they have shoved me towards my bathroom mirror, forcing me to take a better look at myself. Reflection is brilliant and the strongest guidepost into ourselves.

Working on the next book in the series “A House for Every Purpose, My Journey From Pillow to Pillow” revels a woman abandoning her home in search or her identity beyond men, motherhood, author.

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