“I know nothing about sex, because I was always married.” Zsa Zsa Gabor

Putting yourself out there can be a whirlwind. Keeping up with multiple dates is a focused juggling act. At this moment, I know several people who are dating and sleeping with multiple partners. My question is, does everyone know who is zooming whom?

Trying on a potential partner may include having a naked date. If you are multi-dating, is it wrong to cross-pollinate? No judgments from me; however, sexual etiquette errs on the side of some sort of moral compass.

Consider this; you wear a mask to go into the grocery store. Should you inform your sexual partner that you have other sexual partners? If breathing in one another’s possible covid-19, don’t you think being upfront about who you are naked with is responsible?

There are dating apps for hookups. That may exclude such a conversation as it is implied that you are showing up just for sex.

However, if you are looking for a partner more than a night-filled merry-go-round, it is essential to start on the right well-pedicured foot. That includes honest communication.

Sexual etiquette 101 includes but is not limited to having the “talk.” What that conversation may sound like, “I am just figuring what works best for me I would not consider us exclusive at this time.” Grown-up words for owning your choices, go you.

Or maybe “I do not sleep with anyone unless I know it is exclusive”.  Anything in between as long as it is upfront and honest will work. There are plenty of fish in the sea, be truthful or swim in another direction.

Bad form to lie about sleeping around, lie about being married, lie about multiple partners. Manors are required with clothes on or off.

Ay underline will leed you into another article, happy reading, good luck in the dating world. Please note I will retun any questions or emails that come my way.

My Mantra: “Life always gives us a chance to find our voice.”

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Katie L Lindley

Although I would like to say I am organized, focused and cookie-cutter, that simply would not be me. I am no different than any other woman in the world. I love to love, love hard, and, in the end, have learned to love myself above all else. So here I am, writing about the many men and the multiple purposes they have served in my life. Realizing that not one man on my roster had fulfilled every single one of my needs. Perhaps one man is not supposed to? I have compiled snippets of the men that have entered my world. In the end, they have shoved me towards my bathroom mirror, forcing me to take a better look at myself. Reflection is brilliant and the strongest guidepost into ourselves.

Working on the next book in the series “A House for Every Purpose, My Journey From Pillow to Pillow” revels a woman abandoning her home in search or her identity beyond men, motherhood, author.

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